Most men get squimish when they think of themselves as being or becoming gentle. For a man to be gentle is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of confidence and inner strength. To embrace a young child is gentle but not weak, to shed a tear when emotionally hurt is gentle but not weak, to forgive when wronged or to say I'm sorry are signs of gentleness, not weakness. When a man expresses love for his wife openly he displays  remarkable gentleness and there is nothing weak about that: and such displays will only deepen her love, desire and respect for you.

Society has herded us into a corral of feelings and expressions that they call masculine. These expressions of masculinity have contributed to 50% of all marriages ending in divorce. Men we can do something about this, but we can no longer pass the buck. WE must decide that the buck stops here. From this point on we will love our wives as Christ loved the church and we will understand the most important thing that we can do for our children, both sons and daughters, is to love, honor and respect there Mothers. The way your son sees you treat his mother is the way he will understand women should be treated. The way your daughter sees you treat her mother is the way she will understand how she should expect to be treated by a man. So fellows won't you accept the challenge. Spice up your marriage if it's dull, make it sizzle if it's cold. Don't let you marriage end in divorce. It's worth fighting for. There is a better way, and I want to show you.

Strength is a very positive characteristic, but it is not the strength of a man that attracts a woman. She will find security in your strengths, but it is the gentleness of a man that attracts her. Because the man was made from the dust of the ground and the woman was made from his rib, everything that is in her is in him. She needs the things in him that identify with the things in her. This is why a woman is attracted to a man who is caring with children, affectionate, a good conversationalist, and romantic. These are perhaps what "Society" would consider feminine traits. What she needs is for him to get in touch with his feminine side without feeling that his masculinity is being threatened. It takes a strong self-assured man to do this. Are there any out there? Let me hear you shout YES!

Check this out. The masculinity of Jesus was not threatened when he wept at the gravesite of Lazurus, when he washed his disciples' feet, or when he showed an open display of affection for children. The Bible states in the book of Jeremiah chapter 31 verse 3, "yea I have love thee with an everlasting love, therefore with love and kindness have I drawn thee." It is with gentleness that God has drawn us to him, and if a man is to love his wife as Christ loved the church, he will find that love and kindness will draw her to him as well.

Ladies I haven't left you out. There is good information for you in my new book as well. Wouldn't you like to know if you're about the crown the wrong King? Don't you want to know how to get your man to talk to you, and Ladies you need to understand the power of your kiss and how it can release the King inside of your man.

These are just a few examples of the life changing information that you can find in my new book, Strong Enough to be a Man, Gentle Enough to Please a Woman. Pick up a copy. It's just a click away.